Negative Chi

How do you get rid of people that zap all your energy? Better yet, how do you just stop them from zapping your energy. Seriously, I'm notorious for reeling these guys in, folks that almost go "single white female on me". Specifically, some folks try to use others to make themselves look better or feel better, sometimes it's just because they can't face themselves. Now this is not related to anyone in particular. I just feel that sometimes when we see someone that has their act together we want to emulate them. And that would be fine and good if we weren't trying to BECOME that other person. I guess what I'm trying to say is that wanting to be better is not a bad thing as long and you are trying to make you a better you, not so much become someone else.

By the way, how did that movie end? I don't think I remember if the copycat died or not.